Whooops! There He Comes Again
Dear Roz:
My husband and I are very sexual, but he ejaculates so quickly! He is very good with my sexual needs, but we both would love it if he could maintain an erection for a longer time. What can we do?
===> Various answers are longer than this column has room for, but there are clear instructions on pages 136-137 of my book, Sizzling Sex In 30 Days. They provide several specific techniques, including variations of the Squeeze Technique (squeezing the head or base of the penis until the urge to ejaculate passes).
If they don’t work, it’s time for sex therapy. I suggest you go to http://AASECT.org to find an AASECT certified sex therapist in your
community. And expect to be asked to go together at some point—getting
past too-rapid ejaculation is a team effort.
Of course, if there isn’t a certified sex therapist in your area, this is a problem I can help with as your Sexuality Coach. Click on the navigation bar that says COACHING OPTIONS.